AND then you pulled the woe woe woe is me card. GUILT TRIP!
Why did you really want to know where? Want to send her flowers? Just had to know? Why? Why? Why?
Pathetic isn't it?
Validate her. Let go. Her crisis. Enjoy interactions, but when you pull that crap, you do push her away.
Ask yourself why she hates you. When you get to the point where you don't HAVE to force her to feel she has to answer you, maybe you will just get the results you want.
Not trying to be a jerk, but that interaction was just pure bad.
Let go of "why" and accept you can take a higher path. If she's truly in a crisis, there isn't $h!t you can do about it. Period. Validate her, close the door when she leaves, and then just shake your head at it. Detach.
