I struggle with the fact that she continues to hate and despise me. I find it impossible to believe that someone can be that way towards someone that they loved so deeply
Tad
Tad my xh hates me to this day and it's been two yrs since we divorced. I know he loved me more than anything. He cannot take that memory from me. We were married almost 20 yrs. They are NOT the people we married so OF COURSE the can feel this way. They write their own stories.
As far as asking her questions...try not too....she will turn it into u being nosey and not letting go. You can't talk to her like you use to.
D you have GOT to try harder to understand she's not he same person and not take everything personally.
