Well about to go to bed it's been 48 hours since she announced the "date" and we haven't talked about it since. In fact it feels like she wants to pretend it's not going to happen. I mean how can she put her head on my chest, knowing full well what she plans to do.
It's crazy but we haven't even worked out the logistics yet. I mean we only have one car right now. I wonder how long it will take her to either let me know when she is going, or if she changed her mind. I know WAW are chronic avoiders but this is ridiculous.
At the same time I know not to ask about it either. Don't want for her to feel "pressured" and have her go through just to spite me. Call me crazy but I learned from reading other threads and dealing with my W that bringing up anything having to do with their improper behavior just makes them defensive and encourages the behavior since they are hell bent on proving you wrong. The next 24 hours are going to s*ck.
