I have not read the other thread but will try to this weekend.
But fyi, I know that there comes a time when we find that a line exists which has been crossed...and sometimes it's a deal breaker. And sometimes it happens over and over, and in a moment of clarity, we realize it's time to cut our losses, and just thank God for a healthy kid, and move on...
Sometimes we don't know where a boundary line is, until it's been smashed into...which [censored] but at least it's clear...so I hear you.
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