Besides, what it really looks like is someone making the best of today and "from this day forward"...and letting go of past hurts.
Kind of like what your h wants you to do for him...??
I do have issues letting go of the past...it's a flaw of mine...I've learned to let go of so much anger tied to past memories and experiences, but it's still a challenge. Not sure how to take your last question up there 25....H isn't really asking me to let go of past hurts, and if he is, he's got a funny way of showing it, because what he's done in the past that's hurt the most is a reoccuring thing....how many times can I really let go of the past hurts of constant EAs he's had when he has yet another going on right now? Not sure if you've seen my other thread going or not... http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...04#Post2158504.
Not even sure how I got so wrapped up in the FIL issue as I don't feel it's an issue...lol. I do appreciate your comments though...there is wisdom in your words. Happy that your son will always have memories of his GF. DD got to meet her only great-grandmother when she was 2 months old....GGM passed away a month after that. I know she'll never remember, but it meant the world to me.
me 32 H 30 T 8 years M ~5 years DD 3 years first d-bomb dec 06 second bomb may 07 third bomb july 08 finally seperated jan 09 a move for "progress'" sake may 11
