You can tell her you've changed til you are blue, but she will not believe you, SHOW her, actions are louder than works.
I know women yearn for men to offer help, whereas a man won't ask unless he needs something (yes, I'm generalizing, but for the most part this is true). Are you helping daily? are you offering help? does she have "me" time? little ones are draining, have her go do something just for her... she needs to be a happy woman so she can be a happy mother and wife.

Hope you are still sening your psychologist, once or twice won't do.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.