oh oh, I just have to tell you to read "Committed"... from the same lady who wrote "eat pray and love"... I'm an ol' hag of the board, lol, I am a lurker now, I do remember seeing ya but not much else...

Ahhh, sometimes we are our worst enemy... remember, the way you love him is not the same way he loves you, we want the other person to do things our way . The thing about saying ILY is tricky, if I were with a guy for 2yrs I'd want him to say it to him, but if he was showing you then that's something else...also, he has been betrayed not once but twice, so I can see him being afraid.

Good luck... remember, no drama, be yourself (don't groan, cheesy but true)


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.