I am 20 months into W's A.

I am closer to my God.

I am closer to my kids.

I have added new skills and hobbies.

I have reconnected with old friends.

The anger I had when I began this process has subsided (mostly) and given way to a greater level of understanding.

I thought I had successfully detached from W's actions. But I find that I have had mixed success.

When I find some peace and resolution, I will see W again and doubt my resolve all over again. Exchanging kids mid-week makes the process so much more difficult.

After W's tirade today, I realize she'll never address the issues she has. She is pure hate. I can not listen to her anymore. It is unhealthy for me and my kids.

After last weekend, I realize how awesome it is to relax, take a deep breath and look around. I am missing a lot. The rest of my life is waiting.

I think its time to be un-stuck.


M / W: 43
D8
S6
M 10 years / T 13 years
W admitted EA/PA: 10.6.09
Separated in same house 10.6.09
W moved out 2.27.10