Hey guys...finding a few minutes ALONE to update! H is at a bb game with SS and GS's!!! All is going along smoothly so far...H did sign for another job and had an interview but lost it to a more experienced worker...he will keep on trying. We have yet to get our finances in some kind of order...we still have seperate accts and he is only giving me what he was when we were separated although he did buy a new battery for my car today. This is something that is bothering me and we did discuss it the other day but we do need to talk about it some more. I swear he picked the worst time to come home (I hate to even say that out loud!) but it has just been very busy with the end of the school year, getting the kids settled for summer etc etc!!! We have not had time or maybe I should say "made time" to really sit down and talk! We have talked about cleaning up the rental house and getting it rented for extra income but that has not happened yet! He has always been a bit of a procrastinator and that hasn't changed apparently!!!
We did go camping as a family over the Memorial Day weekend and it was fun despite the rainy, cool weather! This weekend is my birthday and I am hoping that he and I will go out tomorrow night...sans kids!
The big news is that H dismissed the divorce yesterday! I feel like a little weight has been lifted off my shoulders! I know that that does not mean that we are "safe" from it happening again and that we still have much work to do to ensure that it doesn't happen again!
I just wanted to let you know what is happening so far.... You are all in my thoughts and prayers every night!!!
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