Just read something an hour or two ago about 'playing by the rules'. We LBSs tend to try to play nicely whereas the WAS throw all the rules out and play however they want. That's one of the reasons they are WAS in the first place.
Not saying we have to play dirty, but we have to play tough and realize the 'other team' will disrespect the rules in place.
Why do you think that is? Really? it's not a hard question.
Maybe because for years, many years the LBS didn't play by the rules in the marriage. WAS aren't walking because they don't play by the rules. They are walking because WE DIDN'T play by the rules. We, the LBS, played DIRTY for years in our own little ways.
Many still don't play by the rules even with DB. God knows I'm as guilty as he next spouse.
Some once said on here, that it's rare for someone to leave a good solid, functioning relationship. They just don't.
Absolutely right Harrier. As much as we hate to admit it, it is true.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
