Life is a highway

[ninelives]

I didnt go. Mostly because of the crazy crap she said to me. That she wishes her sister never met me. That Im all about a macho image (because I bought a motorcyle and got in great shape), that i should just move on and grow up, ( Why ,because I still love my wife despite all shes done) She told me to f off a few times and she was drunk. Why did I deserve all this abuse, because I mentioned to her husband that OM and my son ate the fish BIL caught with my son. Thats all. That warrented such a barrage?

Last summer, she came into my house, trespassed, to find a beater bar for an old vacuum she lent my wife. I was in the middle of throwing away old toys and organizing my basement where the kids hang out and I usually really create a mess before i organize. The way I work.

So i come back from buying a lawnmower and she greats me with,
Where's my effing beater bar. It went on like that , she then threatend to call child services because I was living in " Squalor" Told me to eff myself a few more times. I asked her to get off my property, Wife showed up and i told her to leave as well but her name was still on lease at that point.

Sil apologized a week later.

Im done with her and her crazy ways. I dont care if I ever see or talk to her again.

But I will not deprive my kids from seeing their Auntie as she has been Amazing with them. I will concede that. They love her and she thinks the world of them.

Sometimes I think she was jealous of our marriage because we didnt fight and I was sympathetic to my wife and did not stand in her way when she wanted to do things. Go shopping with the girls, go out for a ladies night.. etc ( boy did that bite me on the A$$)

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