I need solid advice about my dilema...please

[25yearsmlc]

Interestingly comment from her...and though there is some truth to it, who says that's good?

I went thru a few mc's before finding one that wouldn't just tell me, in effect, to leave h. I hated it when they'd tell me "H is the problem"...correction, at FIRST I LIKED IT b/c it meant that I was "right".

Then I came to hate it b/c it meant I was powerless. See the diff?

you could reply "well NO mc says to stay m at all costs..."

b/c your wife is only seeing things from her perspective. Granted I've said you have some real work to do and you do.

But no w is perfect. She's not growing from this, but you are. That's too bad for her and good for you.

Keep it going & nice going with the girls.

Invite them over too. They still have friends back where you are, right? That's a way to get them there...all girls that age WANT to see their peeps and if you are there too...

so invite them and let them have a sleepover where you rent some movies (they may like scary ones) and make popcorn, etc. Even if you are mostly in the next room, it's fun to hear them, and that's what they need to associate with you for now. FUN Daddy.
Just an idea.