H's "issue" he claims is that FIL does so much more for DD than he ever did for H. I hear what he's saying, but I don't validate it...lol.What grandparent doesn't want to spoil they're grandkids in some way?


That's ^^^ his issue? His father wasn't there for him b/c he worked and was gone a lot?

So, your h would prefer if the grandfather was as absent for DD as he was for h when he worked all the time, to be "fair?"

That's the most petty & self centered thing I've heard in a long time.
sorry.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change