H's "issue" he claims is that FIL does so much more for DD than he ever did for H. I hear what he's saying, but I don't validate it...lol.What grandparent doesn't want to spoil they're grandkids in some way?
That's ^^^ his issue? His father wasn't there for him b/c he worked and was gone a lot?
So, your h would prefer if the grandfather was as absent for DD as he was for h when he worked all the time, to be "fair?"
That's the most petty & self centered thing I've heard in a long time. sorry.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016