Things are up and down for me right now. This is the time of year that everything came out last year. Today is one year from the day that OW (scum of the earth) stage-set a crime against herself. Tomorrow will be the day that she brought in pictures to show H and accuse me of doing it!
We've known each other for nearly 30 years, so he knows me and knows I wouldn't stoop that low. He knows she did.
Opinion wanted- In an e-mail to her (last year) he said he didn't believe I did it and inferred that maybe she did. She got angry, "You don't know me at all!" Then he back peddled (she had him so wrapped around her finger) and said they should throw me "to the wolves." THAT was so damaging to me to read that. Yeah, he was a monster at times, someone I did not recognize. They were both acting out childhood traumas against the mother figure for one, and I got to be the mother. Other people got to be other people to them. I wasn't the only one they hurt badly.
So as part of tx I requested he write to her and tell her he believes I didn't do it. He agreed. So what did he do? Wrote her and basically said something along the lines of "I'm sorry about xxxxxx, I don't know who did this to you, but it wasn't MZ." Maybe just semantics, but not telling her he really believes she did it seems like the continuance of lying. She once called him a coward. In a way she is right about that. He says he hates confrontation. I say he could do confrontation to save us. He tends to avoid. Anyway...I let it go. Am I too picky or do you know what I mean about sidestepping the issue?
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
