HI! Yeah, piecing is definitely fits and starts here. When I sense it's in a "fit" I tend to go back to DB techniques and that seems to even things out.
Sometimes I can be really open with my feelings and needs about the A. Sometimes he is terrific and so loving. Then there are the times he (must feel so much shame) and he reacts with sarcasm and defensiveness. So, I just go back to DB.
One thing is that we are moving ahead and looking at the things we want to change about the US and the things we each need to change about the "I" and that is up and down. The list off the top of my head is a list containing:
* schedules * being open and honest about what he needs * forthcoming * noticing/interpreting imbalance of power
;-) MZ
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
