With all the advice flying around here, I gather that limited contact/going dark worked well for others that have been down this path.
Personally, I feel that I need to begin limiting contact with my W as well. When I took her temp on Monday, she said some very harsh things about me(not a surprise). Within the last couple of days she has tried to draw me out. I have to admit that she was successful until yesterday afternoon. She sent me 2 text messages that I didn't reply to. I haven't heard from her since. I figured WTH do I want to talk to someone that just told me on Monday she didn't want to be around me. I feel like her spare tire. Enough of that.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa