OH! quick insert! Up till 3 weeks ago, I've not lived near him in over two years...Have taken a few trips with DD to see him (always stayed in hotels), and when an unexpected car repair ate up my new apt funds, I made a very challenging choice to move into H's apt till I get my funds back up again (which are building nicely I might add).

H has several of our framed wedding pics hung up around the house. First thought was he did it for show before we got here, but his old roommate (male) and I are friends and I've been hanging out with him and his GF on occasion and old roomie says H had those same pics up when he had lived at H's place too.

H hasn't worn his ring in a long time, but keeps it on his nightstand?

Confused by these things...

me 32
H 30
T 8 years
M ~5 years
DD 3 years
first d-bomb dec 06
second bomb may 07
third bomb july 08
finally seperated jan 09
a move for "progress'" sake may 11