She is living in our home, well, her mother’s home to be exact. Her mother has a track record of two divorces. Her first husband was very physically abusive to her. Her second, which was my wife’s father, left her for another woman before she gave birth to my wife.
My wife’s father was the EXACT definition of a deadbeat dad. She had abandoned her and never gave a penny for child support. He is VERY financially stable, yet never bothered to give my wife any financial help. He has several children through different wives. If you ask me, my wife was the pick of the litter. She WAS the kindest, sweetest and most humble of them all.
I think I am paying for her father’s sins. She is asking for a big chunk of my paycheck a week for child support. She works and makes a good living. I had supported, sacrificed and given her everything I could during our relationship. She claims that our marriage was a lie and that it has been 20 years of misery for her. I came from a broken home and so did she. All we had was each other and for her to kick me out of our home and treat me like I was the biggest S.O.B in the world has been very hurtful. I still remain in my worship team and in prayer for her.
Do you think she will end up regretting any of this?
God bless you all and thanks for the support!
Me: 37 W: 37 Married Feb 14 1997 Seperated Thanksgiving weekend 2010 No divorce filed yet 1st born son:13 2nd daughter:9 3rd son:4 Trying hard to detach
