To Denver

[LearningPatience]

I see where you are coming from Harrier. My point/thought on this as I typed it was the whole infidelity, cake-eating, walking away before trying everything aspect. I still feel the fidelity 'rules' apply.

But did I play nicely? No, I didn't. I had passive-aggressive tendencies, a bit of a martyr complex, low self-esteem and a whole host of other issues I dumped onto my W's lap. I started falling for someone else in the middle of W's R with OM (trust me, it didn't help:) I think one of the reasons we matched up so well is because we were both flawed in many of the same ways!

I might not completely agree to this interpretation of 'rules', but I do understand it and see your side. In either case, I need to go out there and play with honour, no matter what the other team does!