I was just reminded on why I'm going as dark as possible for my own sanity. W and I have a joint acct that we are paying into to pay off a cc. We each get paid on alternate weeks, and I've been paying the cc each Friday.
Logged into account and see that W used the joint card at a place three hours away that friend of OM has a cabin. Did NOT need to see or know that she was up north on Memorial Day. Ugh!
She realized what she had done and transferred the money from her personal account, but still, I did NOT need any reminders of her and OM. Just seeing that probably raised my blood pressure 20 points.
Time to go for a walk. At least my MIL and SD responded that they like the picture of my S14.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011
