How about, Guns and roses" I used to love her , but I had to kill her". No I dont want people to think Im losing it and heading towards homicidal thoughts, I am not.
She called youngest son this morning. She bought him a brand new IPOD. For no reason. Money is tight for her and she is buying expensive gifts. I told him straight up. " I cant afford to buy you new things if its not your birthday or a special holiday" . He said. " Its okay, dad, your gift is you are the best dad in the world" He has always said things like that.
I think she is trying to placate her guilt by those gifts, Alice Cooper concerts etc.. All they want is their mother to love them and feel secure.
I actually gave both my sons crap yesterday for being lazy. I have a job to do and that is raise my kids right. Not spoil them.
As for the support with the other BITS and NC. I will only contat her when its a rational concern for the kids and an official matter. But I still continue to upbeat when we do converse and not get drawn in to NEGATIVE talk.
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