Please understand LITB, that you DO need to fight for your kids, but...
Kids develop BEST when then have the MOST access to BOTH parents.
50/50 is the best, with most access to both parents.
Fighting for custody, reducing the access time of the other spouse, whether done by the WAS or the LBS is reducing the opportunity for the kids to develop BEST.
I'm not saying give in, but I am saying do what is right for the kids, given the situation.
I completely understand and have put a lot of thought into this decision. Given the circumstances and the choices that I have, it is a no win situation no matter what I decide.
That being said, I am doing what I feel is in the best interest of our kids. I have always been a good dad despite what my W claims. She has conveniently forgotten all the positive things that I have done.
Believe me, it is not a decision that I'm happy to make, but a decision that had to be made.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
