Just be the best 9 you can be. I know you've heard that at least 100 times now . You'll be quite a catch for next one and it will be her loss if she doesn't come out of her fog. Her relationship will eventually fail when going starts getting tough.
I hear y'all on those song titles. I can't get them out of head either. Seems like Tom Petty may some appropo song titles, too like "The Waiting is the Hardest Part" and "Don't Come Around Here No More".