I have been following along and thinking about you every day.
I think you are well on the road to reconnection with H regardless of how slow the progress seems to be.
As it was put by another poster: The closer you get to reconciliation the harder it is to see the progress.
Keep the faith and keep doing what you are. It is working very well for you
I plan to reply to you in the alt.
(((((Hugs)))))
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11