I tried to respond to your last post but it was locked. Something along the lines of my cheap starter, $200 guitar has a whammy bar
Originally Posted By: ninelives
Not really a whole lot to report. I am seeing that her R with OM is not about to fizzle anytime soon. My point of no return will be if he moves in with her. To me, that is like being married without the piece of paper and the church. I dont think I can recover from that.
As it is, the longer she continues with her active R, the tougher it will be to have a R. I dont think Im at the point where I cant forgive her, however, I DONT understand her at all. I thought her R with him would have ended long ago. She told me back in March that she had a plan to end it with him and be on her own to figure herself out.
I feel almost exactly the same as you right now. W has mentioned that finances were tight (well duh) and had even considered a roommate. I just don't see OM moving in with her though. He is a complete slob and would drive W crazy. Who knows though.
Originally Posted By: ninelives
Either she is not strong enough to be on her own, or she really believes she has a future with her loser Boyfriend.
In my sitch, I think it's more of the former.
In both of our cases, we *know* we're strong enough!
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011
