OMG Please ignore that vindictive order of your h about the grandfather not seeing the DD b/c of H's stubborn refusal to reconcile with his father who is sick and mortal!. Such idiocy. If he loses his dad without resolving this, he'll have YET ANOTHER reason to be wacky...
My mil died this past year, and my father a decade ago. When my dad died, one of my brothers had not spoken to him in 5 years...fools...
Don't enable that. If YOU have to be the one to maintain the contact, so be it. Do not deny your daughter the few years of memories left to create, and don't deny your fil those either, (all b/c of your h...)
Your h's behavior just in this matter alone, really bother me. He has no leverage with his dad, except his daughter and to me, that's a low blow and a crappy thing to do to anyone...
Extortion at his daughter's expense, and his dad's...for HIS PRIDE.
Sorry but I had to tell you that I REALLY hope you can compensate. Is it fair? No. But it's worse to let your h do that to them and your d...
Good luck!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
