18 Wheels and a Dozen Roses

[OnMyWay]

AJM80,

You say things in ways that help me understand myself so much better. I become so clouded by my ambivalence, only to see more clearly in the way you've put this. I believe we are very much in the same place, same situation. Though you put it into words much more clearly then I, the feeling is the same.

I feel it is time that something change. Unfortunately, we will end up being the ones making those changes because both our WAS will never come around to see what they've lost until it's gone. It is the sad truth. Unfortunately, yes, the kids are the casualties here.

25yearsmlc is tough, but she provides some real insight and puts an honest face on reality. We've both been through this process together. I can see that maintaining the status quo will not get us the results we were hoping for. Time to do something more concrete about that.

I'm with you.