Please understand LITB, that you DO need to fight for your kids, but...

Kids develop BEST when then have the MOST access to BOTH parents.

50/50 is the best, with most access to both parents.

Fighting for custody, reducing the access time of the other spouse, whether done by the WAS or the LBS is reducing the opportunity for the kids to develop BEST.

I'm not saying give in, but I am saying do what is right for the kids, given the situation.