Ok. So me and my wife have recently seperated. We have been married for 6 years, together 7. Heres the problem, about a month ago I was told that she wanted to seperate. The reasoning behind this is she says I have treated her badly, verbally that is, and I do admit I have called her about every name in the book at one time or another. Also she says that I do not helpo out enough with our 3 kids, 4, 2 ,and 1. I beg to differ myself with this but OK so be it. She tells me she has not been in love with me for about six months now. She says she wants the man she married, she wants space, and wants to be happy. She also says she has a huge hole in her heart that may never filled. She says she wants to build her confidence back up. I am trying to honor all this but seem to find myself hovering around her or calling daily still. I am literally madly in love with her, more than she will ever know. We have been to marriage counseling together, and I have seen a psychologist twice myself. Her terms were this: seek help for myself( anger management), marriage counseling, and try to quit smoking. She wants me to change my ways. By the way we almost seperated like 2 1/2 years ago due to a similar situation which apparently I have messed up. She says she doesnt know if she can let me back in her life because she doesnt want me to go back to the same person. Believe me I have changed. I literally want nothing more than my wife and kids. its driving me crazy. Please help!!!!!!!!!!!
