25, I would have to agree it does sound like young high school stuff that married couples don't do. The roommate just turned 24 in may and mommy and daddy pay for everything still. We expected the first year to be the hardest. We just werent expecting that we would have outside influences making it harder on us.
Neither me or H have filed any papers, he had told me back in Feb that if he wanted D he would have filed already. It's all very confusing. March 15th I get a text that its over and I'm still not sure if it was him that sent it or the roommate getting on his phone.
I didn't know how to handle getting her out of the house. I learned my lesson about single female roommates living with a married couple. The roommate doesn't have a life so she had to get in the middle of ours. I told the H that she needed to go when she first started this and I recommended having another married couple live with us. We were somewhat broke and getting a business started and I was out of work and in school.
my goal now? keep lines of communication open between me and H. Get H to meet up with me in person. Get the roommate away from my H. Only time I get a text from H is when roommate is in class or not around him. I haven't actually talked to him on the phone since the end of Jan.
M 27 H 27 M 1yr and 5mths together: 8yrs no kids separated since: 1/26/11 H filed and had me served: 7/6/11
