Chris, I don't have a lot to add at this moment but wanted to comment on a couple of things. First, congrats on the 180s in your reactions! Now, the 2x4s
I'm confused at who is filing for D? If it's you, then why are you doing it? You say you don't want a D, so saying you will file is a dangerous game of chicken. There's a difference in getting your H to miss you and reconsider vs. putting him in 'panic mode'.
It sounds like this ex-roommate is completely toxic to everyone around her. Minimize whatever contact you are having, eliminate it if at all possible.
Finally, one way you could help us help you better (and this may sound petty): break your posts up into multiple paragraphs. It makes it easier to read and understand so that we can really grasp what you are saying.
It'll take a while for your posts to show up at first, but don't get discouraged, keep us informed and we'll try to help!
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011
