Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans


I mean that I believe that your wife, should see you in the best light possible for as long as possible before you remove yourself from her sight.

Before you throw down an ultimatium/boundary that removes you from having them in their life, they should know that you have changed are better.


Well, assuming that I still want to save my M, I guess that I had better hope that my W seeing me in the best light possible for 3 months was long enough.

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce