my guess is that it's b/c GB is hoping that either some Penthouse forum type event will occur and he'll get 2 women at the same time AND she'll be happy too...(but will prefer HIM over any OW or OM...)
OR she'll hate sex w/others, and fall back in love with GB and will spontaneously treat him right, not want sex with others anymore and won't punish him anymore with passive aggressive behavior or overtly hostile behavior...
b/c the worst thing to him, (according to your actions GB, not your words) would be for her to leave him. Then he'd be alone.
Alone in the dark, when you think it out and feel your fears, isn't this pretty much how you got here GB? (I'm asking..).
The idea that she is being "fair" b/c She said he can have sex with OMs is just not worth commenting on, except SHE came up with that too, as I understand it.
I don't know how to advise in a DB way with this, b/c it's not a marriage envisioned by MWD as workable.
I just don't get why you'd want to be married and yet each be able to date others? Wht happens when you meet someone you care for? That's why the 2 couples I know who had open m's both divorced.
Why does your w want to be married? b/c other than the money aspects & getting to live overseas, why does she want to be in a "committed R" that is by definition, NOT committed? I just don't get it.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
