W seems to start becoming more interested in our M. Not sure if is because she sees me as the one to resolve the current situation.
The amount of a paycheck/$ that I was expecting didn't come in the first of this month. (I worked on commissions only, had all the finances under control until about a 2 months ago. W saw it in the past if I said anything about $ that I was controlling.)
The plan was to take the youngest daughter to live with her sister this summer where they are both are going to get jobs and going to college. In another state.
We where going to use money that the oldest daughter had received to purchase a vehicle and take it to her. Unfortunately W used it instead for a school trip for youngest Daughter. W and both Daughters have a hard time not staying within a budget.
Now we are just making it paying the bills, $ not expected until middle of next month, and we are supposed to leave tomorrow at least to take youngest Daughter. Neither has a job, no money and no transportation.
The coach where they are attending has found oldest a job, but she needs transportation. Oh yes oldest is 21.
The kicker is that the oldest went to FLA with boyfriends family. W went and got a quick loan for Oldest Daughter to have spending money.
W called a cousin who has help her out in past when she got into a financial crunch. No go. I am calling family to see if they can help out. My focus is on our bills and trying to pay those. I feel guilty that I can't fix the $ situation for W and daughters.
I don't just want to leave them stranded, but not sure what else to do. Youngest Daughter has no clue. has only worked for about 6 days since the beggining of the year. Has not saved a dime.
Feeling guilty and helpless.
I am desperately in need of more direction, support, advice and help...
It would be very much appreciated. To those who have responded thank you very much... You have been a big help
