When the time comes for the boundary; when the gates come crashing down, the spouse should KNOW what they are losing.
What do you mean Jack?
BTW, I have remembered a couple of things that W and I said to one another during our telephone conversation on Tuesday. Not sure if I included in my original update, but wanted to put them down here.
W asked me about my text message about moving on and looking for someone else to share my life with.
W: "So now you get what you want. You can go find a stripper or hooker to be with."
Me: "W, that is not what I want for my life now."
W: "Now. Right."
Me: "It's not what I have ever wanted. And if I ever did want to go to strip clubs or do that kind of stuff, it is NOT what I want with my life now. I want someone to love, who wants my love."
W: "I don't put it past you right now to go to a strip club tonight or even get a hooker just to get even with me for what you think I have done."
Me: "Well, that's not anything that I am interested in"
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Me: "I will not live in an open M. No matter everything that I ever did wrong in our relationship, I deserve to be treated better than this."
Again, this is from Tuesday night. Part of the convo that I forgot to mention.
I want to reply to some posts from Truegritter, Eric, and Cat... haven't had the chance. Maybe tonight.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
