I don't post often but this is just too much.

If it's not ok, why would you say that it is? If you're not "ok" then why would you say you are? This is passive aggressive behavior at its worst. What you think any of this is going to prove, I have no idea.

You are sending mixed messages and NOT BEING HONEST.

If she is testing you to see how you react to an open marriage, then you just (once again) sent the message that you may pout some but are basically ok with it. ARE YOU?

You are in this marriage too. You get to decide whether or not you are comfortable with adding sexual partners. If you are not, then why tell her that "you would let her try it out and do your best to make it work"?????????


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