DF, from what I see here your W is trying to control you and have the upper hand. From my own LBS standpoint, *you* don't have to pass any tests for her. Plus, the four things she cited were perfectly reasonable and it sounds like she was grasping for straws and/or rewriting history for her own sake.
If you would have done x, y or z, she would have asked for a, b or c. Don't sweat it and definitely don't let her be in control of your GAL! I think you're going to be fine.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011