STILL here...even after I quit.

[Gnosis]

BTM,

- It's good to hear your R with the kids is improving.
- Congratulations on the career advancement.
- RE: GAL. You're right, don't overdo it. Balance is key.

"it does matter to me that it appears to have been a carefully laid out plan on STBX's behalf."

Of course it matters because it is p*ssing you off. Contrary to others opinions I DO THINK anger is good -- as long as you don't let it consume you. IMHO anger is the catalyst that finally gives "nice guys" the conviction to commit their strength and overcome the emotional fog that is clouding their judgment.