Ive never disagreed with 25 and Im not going to start now. Please listen to her.
My point. It will take some time to KNOW for sure whether he wants back or not. Even if he says the words, be cautious because you dont really know until they SHOW you they are back in. And you will know what to look for. What is real and what is forced.
Be patient. You dont want to go down this path again. Trust me.
Oh yes, I am very fortunate to have 25's wise advice and I am trying to apply it at all times. I have also lurked on your sitch too and I do trust and feel for you 9.
In my sitch, I feel he has done more from actions but NEVER saying the words. I have been sticking to the theory "Believe nothing that they say and only half of what they do". Its just somedays, such as today, I feel that I should throw in the towel because its not moving to the pace I want and yes..I know that is wrong!
I spoke with a friend earlier and though that it was clear that I am not ready to say anything let alone be 'done'. He isn't ready and maybe it comes down to I am not ready either. Luckily, I have this forum to share and vent.
H:41 W:44 D1:19 D2:17 S:13 D3:7 T:20 M:18 Bomb:1/5/11 Sep:2/18/11 No D filed yet; just threats