Yea awest, I continue to go to counseling for myself. I have been giving her space...as much as possible in fact. The mixed messages really confuse me though. For example she mentions things we need to again or in the future. She also asked me to move some days off around so that I could go with her and the kids to do something fun. She tells me this and then tell me that I disgust her and its hard to be in the same room with me. Is this normal or am I reading to much into the little things? Because I know that is a trap I want to avoid if possible.