Won't stand for a broken family

[ninelives]

Ive never disagreed with 25 and Im not going to start now. Please listen to her.

My w last summer wanted back in after 4 months apart. I didnt know about OM. I received mixed messages on this board about the R. Some said, dont let her back easy and others were giving me crap for being to hard on her.

My w even wrote me a 7 page letter pledging undying love and how she wanted to grow old with me, blah blah, ad nauseum.

The words were there, the action was NOT. I sensed it immediately when I took her back. In the pool, every time I swam towards her, she backed off. No REAL hugs. Love making was forced.

My point. It will take some time to KNOW for sure whether he wants back or not. Even if he says the words, be cautious because you dont really know until they SHOW you they are back in. And you will know what to look for. What is real and what is forced.

Be patient. You dont want to go down this path again. Trust me.

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