My name is Cindy / sunny. I know you don't know me as I have only posted a few times on various threads. I have been following your situation from the start ok...( lurking )
Just a short update on my marriage to let you know where I'm coming from.....Both of us are 55 years old, high school sweethearts, been married for almost 28 together 40, with no kids.....So its been him and I for years.
I phsically left my husband in 2007 WAW.......I emotionally left my husband in the fall of 2006...I packed for 6 months under the disguise of cleaning the attic and clutter from the house. He didn't notice or show any concern, Why would he ...He didn't think anything was wrong with our marriage..except the constant bitter fighting, the lack of communication, we had stopped going anywhere together, the lack of sex, my crying bouts, etc..........I really didnt have any hard or fixed plans as to what i was going to do...but i knew in my gut that it was going to happen. All the put downs, his TEMPER, his controlling ways over money, and his snide remarks just felt like the world was sitting on my shoulders......and man I was feeling it. I knew that dam was gonna break....
Denver,... It took everything in my soul to walk out of that home of 24 years, to leave a person that once was my best friend, to leave the dreams that we had for our future....but one last argument that went a little like this IF YOUR SO DAMNED UNHAPPY THEN GET THE F OUT, LEAVE, YOUR NO GOOD TO ME ANY MORE ANYWAY....BIOTCH YA NEVER F ME, U DONT LOVE ME SO HIT THE ROAD...........
