Received a call yesterday from my W. She was sounded real upset. I asked her what was wrong. Although I know OM left. I told her that I was sorry that she was sad. Then she started in on me about money again. I have given all I have and she still wants more. I told her I borrowed the money that I gace her. She thinks that I am hiding it. So then she gets real mad and says that I am supposed to meet her at her S house next week to sign a separation agreement and then I am supposed to file. I told her that I was not going to assist her in any way...She got even angrier at me and hung up on me.
Now today D17 calls and tells me they need money for gas and food. So I transfer some money into her account. About an hour after that my W calls and is talking real low but not in mad way. She says that she is scared/worried that she has no money and I don't get paid until next week. The old me would have told her that you made your bed now lie in it, however I just validated her and told her that I would try to get some more $$ to put into her account till payday. Now as some of you have written on here, is this a battle that I want to fight...my answer is no....however once we get a signed agreement....I know she will still not have enough....am I still not to fight this battle and just give in....Does that not make me weak....I was being nice with giving her way more than we agreed on....but is she not try to cake eat....Where do I draw the line...its seems right now that if I give her a D and everything she wants...it will not be enough......So I ask again...where would you all draw the line....
