I don't own DR -- just borrowed and read it a couple of years ago. Is "Don't ask questions or make demands" specific to any stage of MLC? Seems to me that it's good advice in the beginning, and when they've left, and while they're gone, but when they come back, or try to? I seem to recall that boundaries are important then. And boundaries do require demands of a sort.
FTR, I do believe in the whole fluffy bunny MLC thing. Now.
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Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
