I know there is and has been a whole debate on this topic.
Not sure if you actually have the DR book. If you do, what Albuquerque is doing is in: The Surviving His Mid-Life Crisis section of the book. Specifically: Don't ask Questions or Make Demands on page 259.
It helps if you believe in that whole fluffy bunny MLC thing though. ; )
Yes, I have read the book. I don't think that's what MWD is referring to. Asking questions would be "Where did you go? Who did you see? Did you see OW?" Making demands would be "I forbid you to see OW," etc.
It's perfectly OK -- and healthy! -- for Alb. to say to her husband "Look, you're a grown man, and I'm not going to ask you where you're going, but this is NOT a hotel, and if you insist on coming and going as you please, and disrespecting my home this way, then you'll have to find somewhere else to stay."
