Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
I didn't think everyone was tossing 2x4s so much as saying Nooooo as in, stop!

And that's where it is.

Except that he did say he'd file and it was over...A lot...so he has a choice to make about saying that so often.

Everyone seems to agree that no contact is mandatory.

Denver if you are taking a poll, that's how the numbers seem to add up.

But in the end, it't your life.


I'm not filing for a D anytime in the very near future. I have decided that. I am going to give it at least a month... maybe 90 days before I even think about it again.

The consensus is that I have no contact with W. Yes. But is that the right thing?

I have no idea where I am with this anymore.

Apparenlty I f'd up yesterday and should have just accepted that my W has renewed an A with OM. And not said or done anything.

Is that what the consensus is?


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce