One point I'd bring up about XH not calling is he may not want to hear your voice. I'm lucky. I see my girls every day during the school year and D12 has her own phone now so I don't have to go through STBXW to talk to them.
Even though I've come a long way -- I still don't like hearing STBXW's voice.
For the noncustodial parent, it [censored] having to go through the ex for access to their kids.
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