Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans

This choice to try your best to save a marriage, this is the worse part of: "for better or worse."


I have told myself this over and over during the past 6 months Jack. At what point do we need to begin to look out for ourselves though? Yes this has been the 'worse' part of my M vows. And I have hung in there. But what happens when your W just takes advantage of you sticking with her through the 'worse'? I'm struggling with this right now.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce