W: "And if I just take space and don't see anyone else?"
She ain't done.
Are you?
Denver been worried about you while there was silence here for about a week.
Go back and read what was posted to you before you took sabatical.
What sparked this? What MADE you go by her house?
Now?
You set a boundary. Don't be a paper tiger. Enforce it the same way you lived your promise to be patient and give her space and live your life.
It is easier to enforce than to embrace.
Easier to run than admit your own shortcomings.
What promises did you make to yourself here?
F@ck your W right now.
This has always been YOUR journey. YOUR changes.
YOU man. You let it be about her and her choices again. Couldn't let go of that? We have all been there.
Dust yourself off.
YOUR self respect did not spring from confronting a f@cking coward on a toilet.
Remember THAT guy. Cause he is going to run your life.
And ruin your life.
IF you let someone elses actions make YOUR choices for you.
What does Denver do from here?
There is a man at the counter selling one way tickets to Bitterville. There is a seat with your name on it and in it you will find anger, denial, regret, self punishment, self loathing...
and three people in this f@cked up world that deserve better.
Character is not what you can convince her to believe about you Denver.
It is who you are when the lights go out at night and there is no one there but you.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
