as much as you cannot wrap your brain around this, you will have to.
I agree with your priorities, saving the m first, and if not, handling yourself with dignity but not at your expense or financial suicide (my words).
But you do have to figure out a way to know that no matter what, you will survive...b/c you will.
I'm sorry you are here. But it's the right place, for a lousy reason.
((( hugs )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
